A Legacy of Middos: Lessons from My Grandfather
A Legacy of Middos: Lessons from My Grandfather
Rabbi Yale New
It has been just under a month since the passing of my paternal grandfather, R’ Mendel New A”H, at the remarkable age of ninety seven. For decades he stood as a pillar of the Jewish community in Melbourne, Australia..
My father shared with me something unique about my grandfather. He said he was “extraordinary in the ordinary”. He had no unique qualities that separated him from the average person. He was not a genius or gifted with any standout talent. What set him apart was his middos, his character. And that is something every one of us can strive to emulate.
I'd like to share 2 stories that were shared during his shiva that encapsulate his character.
My grandparents lived in Australia and would often travel to spend Yomtov with their children and grandchildren living in America. During one Pesach Seder, he was particularly impressed with the participation and insight of a young granddaughter. He remarked that he would like to give a nachas report to her teacher.
For many, such a comment would have been the end of it, a kind thought expressed and then forgotten. But not for my grandfather. After Yom Tov, he quietly asked for the teacher’s phone number and made the call himself. It was a simple act, yet profoundly meaningful. One can only imagine the encouragement and joy that the teacher felt receiving such sincere recognition. It reflected a man who did not let good intentions remain words, but turned them into action.
When a cousin passed away, leaving significant debts and no children, Mendel stepped in to manage the estate and cover the funeral. Sorting through his belongings, they discovered a tightly bound wad of $20,000. Rather than apply it to the funeral expenses, Mendel immediately dispatched it to charity. “Let him leave this world with that mitzvah,” he said.
These stories do not describe dramatic or headline making achievements. They reflect something far more enduring. A life built on thoughtfulness, follow through, humility, and kindness. The kind of life that shapes families, strengthens communities, and leaves a legacy that cannot be measured in titles or accolades.
In a world that often celebrates the extraordinary in loud and visible ways, my grandfather showed us the power of the ordinary lived with excellence.
May his memory be a blessing and a source of inspiration.
Wishing you all a Good Shabbos and a Chag Kosher Visameach!
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